I’ve never found any stock in destroying the beautiful parts of plants to figure out the chances of someone loving me. I mean, people have gone to fortune tellers and others who tries to profile the people without meeting them for a better look into the feelings behind actions of someone. All of which, I’d have to say, is bull since they don’t know the person nor have they met them before. SAVE YOUR MONEY!!
He loves me, he loves me not. He loves me, he loves me not.
Ok, stop with destroying flowers and counting the petals! You wanna know if he loves you, then go through this checklist and if you have at least two of the five as a “Yes”. All men are different but when they’re the same, it’s undeniable. Regardless of shape, color, and culture, when a man loves a woman… (take it away, Michael Bolton!)
He meets you on time (1)
For any guy, (yes, I’ve asked them) meeting their girl on time is proof that he cares. Why else would they pull on clothes and step out of their comfort zone if not because the woman who has their heart has called them out? When most guys would rather call their family, friends, and work, he get up and go to meet the girl they love. If not love, they wouldn’t make so much effort to look and smell good, and be on time because they don’t want their woman to wait. As silly as it seems, guys show they care by being on time or having a damn good reason why they’re not.
He remembers the small things (2)
There are times I’ve felt like I’ve talked on and on for hours without him paying much attention. And then, out of the blue, he’ll toss me a boon that I’d mentioned long ago and forgotten, but he hadn’t. Apparently, it had taken him a while but he managed to get me something I’d mentioned I wanted. Though it’s a bit late, it’s the thought that counts. It means he does listen, and, though it may take him a while to take action, when he does, he puts all of his heart into it. Trust me, he doesn’t mind forgetting. He remembers BECAUSE it’s you.
He talks with not to you (3)
I’ve always laughed at this one because I notice it the least. My boo-berry often has to point out to me that, instead of talking to me in the way he talks to his friends, family, and at work, he talks WITH me. He listens to what I say and forms a response that adds to what I am talking about or answers my questions. The guys I’ve known in the past would simply tell me something or talk to me and be done with it. But, my boo-berry focuses on me and what I’m saying before he responds with his opinion. Men who care little for their women won’t bother with talking. Men who love their women want to engage her in conversation, knowing that she needs and appreciates it.
He is unconditional with you (4)
Men who have nothing to prove, nothing to share, and nothing to gain are cheap, greedy, and selfish. Men who want to keep their women prove their worth, share their lives, and work without gain because they understand that relationships take work. He knows better than to be cheap and is wise with his plans. He is generous with his kindness and time, and humble in his demeanor and attitude, knowing his chivalrous side is what impresses women most. His confidence makes you feel secure and his support makes you feel invincible. That only happens when a man loves his woman.
He is passionate and… wild ONLY with you (5)
I can’t speak for everyone, but when a man loves a woman, he shows her EVERY chance he gets. Sometimes, it’s less obvious to women because we tend to move quickly, talk on-wards, and are always jumping a few steps ahead of the world around us. But, when he chooses to show her, he commands the space around them, and when he chooses to, he can be a beast of passion, dominating and fierce. And then, a gentle lover who caresses his lover with kisses and touches that makes her whimper and her body quiver in all the right ways. When he holds her and gives her the ultimate passion over and over again, and leaves a part of himself with her. Yes, when he puts her pleasure first, THAT’S a man who loves his woman.
Of course, not all males will confess to this list of quiet truths. Men, often, keep such confessions to themselves, only sharing it with the women they love. So, forgive me, men who feel that way. As for women, take a good look at the man you’re with. If he loves you, then the above checklist is just a reminder of how men and women are different. Should he falls short of the list, then TALK WITH HIM. It might be better for you to move on and get on the same page with the right guy than being on the wrong page with the wrong guy.